i love you many and i just want you to know that you're my favourite boy.

many people rush headlong into relationships without thinking of the consequences. first and foremost, they almost never ask for their parents' consent or do they even think abt what their parents might say if they found out? it wouldnt be pretty if their parents arent very liberal or open-minded people.

secondly, what if the relationship affects his or her school work. even if the relationship isnt the cause of his or her deproving school work, everyone else and especially teachers wld tend to assume that thats the reason why. and relationships are never looked upon kindly in the eyes of teachers even if the teacher considers the kids to be 'good kids'. to them, studies come first and nothing else. but if we dont have something other thn studies to keep our mind on, our brains wld probably just short circuit after awhile. come on teachers, you guys have been there done that, bought the souvenir t shirt. you guys should know the low down on this.

Lastly, what if the relationship doesnt end in a civil manner. it could turn pretty ugly. if it does, you cld get affected physically or mentally. you studies could start failing because of it. you toss and turn at night replaying every moment the both of you ever shared, you turned up in class red eyed and groggy frm the lack of sleep and you dont understand a single word the teacher says. you sometimes you dont even turn up in class at all. or you could just spend all your time in school crying and crying and crying somemore. some people even fall into depression and may become suicidal. i had a friend who became so depressed that she stopped eating and became very withdrawn. it was terribly unusual for her as she is an extrovert. thankfully she recovered frm it and went back to her normal bubbly self. how do i know all this? cos ive been there done that. one of my break ups was this bad. i was prepared for it as it came out of the blue and it was right before my final year exams. i remember crying myself to sleep at nights, turning up red eyed in the examination hall, looking at the scripts and not being able to understand a single word. it was so bad. i never want to experience it again. yet whenever we get out of a bad relationship experience, we'll always be like okay i never want to go into a relationship again, or i never want to fall for someone ever again. but cupid will always swing by with his bow and arrows and hit you right in the heart. its inevitable, unless you've got that good control over your hormones. hha.

well to all free and single souls out there, yes being a swinging single is fun but being attached is ten times better.sacrificing your freedom for someone who really and truly loves you is nothing. in fact, if you truly love the guy, you wont feel a thing at all. you wld just want to be with him every second of the day, you cant help breaking out into a smile at the mere thought of him and you wldnt mind giving your all to him. yeah thats love alright. lets face it, at the end of the day, everyone wants to be loved, everyone wants a shoulder that they can cry on, someone who'll always be there for them rain or shine, someone who'll support them no matter what. no one wants to be abandoned, left on the shelf to rot. the world could always use a little more love. after all, love does make the world go round.